Here’s an “advanced” point that came out of a client workshop last week: when asking for a testimonial, don’t use the word “testimonial,” as it places unnecessary pressure on your customer. Instead, ask for feedback, thoughts, reactions, opinions, etc.
“I’m wondering, how would you say you’ve improved since we’ve started working together? What, specifically, has become better?”
Same goes for referrals: don’t use the word, which actually decreases the odds of you getting one! Instead, ask for who else your customer knows: “Who do you know at your company, or at another firm, who’d get similar value from working with me?”
Ask for testimonials and referrals, and there’s strange, easily avoidable discomfort. Ask for people’s thoughts, and you’re likely to get them because people love to share what’s on their mind.
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